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Office Hours: The Good Girl’s Guide to Kink

A Substack Live replay featuring Ally Iseman and Dr. Amber Hull
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Office Hours will be a recurring monthly Substack Live conversation series for ALL Passport 2 Pleasure subscribers (only paid subscribers will be able to chat live).

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This first session (and the replay) is freely available for everyone and featured a guest, my dear friend and incredible women’s sexual health advocate

of . I won’t always have a guest, but when I do, they will be kick ass.

In Amber’s words:

Under the White Coat
The Good Girls' Guide to Kink
Two weeks ago, I flew into Los Angeles to take a professional exam required to advance my career. I was scheduled to crash in the spare room of my friend Ally Iseman in Santa Monica. As it turned out, tens of thousands of acres of LA County were in flames that week. Ally had to grab her cat and her “Go Bag” to evacuate her home as the building next door caught fire…
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Two weeks ago, I flew into Los Angeles to take a professional exam required to advance my career. I was scheduled to crash in the spare room of my friend Ally Iseman in Santa Monica. As it turned out, tens of thousands of acres of LA County were in flames that week. Ally had to grab her cat and her “Go Bag” to evacuate her home as the building next door caught fire.

She ended up spending part of that weekend with me at a hotel in Culver City. On the night after my exam, we went to watch Nicole Kidman lap milk out of a dish while a hot young actor gave a career making performance by dancing shirtless to Father Figure. Enjoying art and eroticism was just the escape we needed from the careening inferno of the outside world. Fortunately, her home only suffered smoke damage but many of her friends lost everything.

This week, we had a LIVE conversation about the movie Babygirl (spoiler alert). But our conversation went far beyond an ordinary movie critique. We discuss fantasy, desire, communication, vulnerability, parenting, midlife sexual health and customized relationship design. We even touch on anatomy, hormones and prevention of STI’s.

The complete version of my presentation “Sex-Ed Reboot” is available here.

I hope you enjoy our conversation!

If you didn’t get to ask your question in the Live recording, or you thought of something else, please don’t hesitate to drop it in the comments at the bottom of this post. I read everyone and love responding to thoughtful inquiry. And don’t be afraid to respectfully and curiously engage with each other in the comments as well. This is meant to be a conversation and we can all learn from each other!

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Office Hours

This recurring hourlong Substack Live series will be in an Ask Me Anything (AMA) format and is the quickest, easiest way to get your sex, love, and modern relationship questions answered by me, live on your screen*, without booking a private session.

Monthly group guidance sessions with a certified relationship coach specializing in consensual non-monogamy for only $8/month or $80/year? Not too shabby.

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⚫️ The last Sunday of every month at 10am PT / 1pm ET / 6pm GMT.

This first one on January 26th will be open to everyone as an introduction, but after that, starting in February it will be for paid subscribers only. Recordings of all sessions will be made available to all paid subscribers.

*You will need to have the Substack app to tune into my live video and you must have push notifications turned on so that you receive a notification when I go live.

About Me

» I work with couples and individuals who want to improve and strengthen their love, sex, and relationship skills with ease and play.

About me:

  • award-winning screenwriter working on my first book,

  • ICF Certified Relationship Coach-candidate and NCSF-registered KAP (Kink Aware Professional) specializing in inclusive relationship dynamics and ENM,

  • founder of the relationship education platform Passport2Pleasure.com,

  • sought after podcast guest on the topics of love, sex, modern relationships, play parties, and consent and communication,

  • featured subject matter expert for publications like The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, Well+Good, Romper, PureWow, and Yahoo! among others,

  • contributing writer for the leading industry publication Sexual Health Magazine and brands like Arya and Afterglow.

Basically, I don’t fuck around when it comes to fucking around!

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—Ally


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