Thank you for sharing this. In fantasy the thought of a partner having sex with one or more men is extremely arousing for me. If this ever becomes a reality, it will help me out greatly. My partner and I have discussed fantasies with her having sex with one or more men and it arouses her too. All of a sudden she is reluctant to discuss these types of fantasies for fear that I will think less of her. I assured her I won't. Any advice?
First of all: this is TOTALLY normal and common. If it wasn't, I wouldn't have the joy of doing the work that I do to help couples like yourselves navigate this expected but completely workable sticking points. Have you ever worked with a relationship coach who specializes in these dynamics before?
Thank you for sharing this. In fantasy the thought of a partner having sex with one or more men is extremely arousing for me. If this ever becomes a reality, it will help me out greatly. My partner and I have discussed fantasies with her having sex with one or more men and it arouses her too. All of a sudden she is reluctant to discuss these types of fantasies for fear that I will think less of her. I assured her I won't. Any advice?
First of all: this is TOTALLY normal and common. If it wasn't, I wouldn't have the joy of doing the work that I do to help couples like yourselves navigate this expected but completely workable sticking points. Have you ever worked with a relationship coach who specializes in these dynamics before?