The live sessions are always freely available to everyone and this month’s featured not one, but two special guests. I won’t always have a guest, but when I do, they will be kick ass.
‘Meet my girlfriend and my boyfriend’
This month’s special guests were my girlfriend of almost 2 years, Nic, and my boyfriend, A, who I’ve been with for about a year and a half. I wanted to give you a behind-the-scenes look at how I navigate my own personal relationship dynamics and give them each the opportunity to share their own relation-trip journey.
We took time to answer your questions which were submitted ahead of time via the Passport 2 Pleasure chat, as well as questions asked during the live.
How my girlfriend and I met as friends first and then ended up in a triad/throuple together with our now ex bf
Our separate experiences when I split with our boyfriend and how it impacted each of us differently
Her experience continuing on with him while I was simultaneously integrating a new partner
How we’ve been navigating after I moved abroad
How my bf and gf get along with each other and our recent first vacation together (and all the mistakes that were made)
How we each manage jealousy, especially as my bf is newer to these dynamics
Our various play party experiences (together and individually)
How our dynamics have evolved over time
What initially drew them to me and me to them and how it has changed over time
If you didn’t get to ask your question in the Live, or you thought of something else, please don’t hesitate to drop it in the comments. I read them all. And don’t be afraid to respectfully and curiously engage with each other in the comments as well. This is meant to be a conversation where we can all learn from each other!
The comments are a subscriber-only space; that’s part of what makes them one of those rare feel-good places in the digital world. This AI (Ally Iseman) is committed to conversations where we lift each other up. We’ve learned how to talk to each other about stuff that matters in respectful, curiosity-led ways, even if it’s uncomfortable. If you’d like to join the discussion, subscribe below.
Open Dialogue
This recurring hourlong Substack Live series is part interview, part conversation, part Ask Me Anything (AMA) and is the quickest, easiest way to get your sex, love, and modern relationship questions answered by me, live on your screen*, without applying for private coaching.
Monthly group guidance sessions with an ICF Certified Relationship Coach specializing in consensual non-monogamy for only $20/month or $88/year?
Not too shabby.
Get the tools and skills you need to build the love, sex, and relation-trip of your dreams, not someone else’s.
⚫️ The last Sunday of every month at 10am PT / 1pm ET / 6pm GMT.
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About me:
» I work with dynamic couples and individuals who are successful in their field and want to equally excel in their love, sex, and relationships with ease and play.
award-winning screenwriter working on my first book,
ICF Certified Relationship Coach and NCSF-registered KAP (Kink Aware Professional) specializing in consensual non-monogamy and open relationships,
Each month Ally sits down with various sexperts, thought leaders, and creatives to explore both their expertise within sex, love, and modern relationships as well as the various facets of their own relation-trip.
Each month Ally sits down with various sexperts, thought leaders, and creatives to explore both their expertise within sex, love, and modern relationships as well as the various facets of their own relation-trip.
