💬 Ask Ally: How to manage when one partner has no extra connections and feels more alone?

A weekly inclusive relationship advice column from Ally Iseman.

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Welcome to the inclusive relationship advice column Ask Ally, where I answer all of your burning questions about consensual non-monogamy, communication skills, and all things relationship design!! These are real questions from real readers like YOU.

This is part relationship advice, part sharing my own journey as a woman dating non-monogamously. Think Carrie Bradshaw but without the Aiden vs. Mr. Big showdown, because I can be with both of them thanks to expansive relationship dynamics!

Leave a comment or shoot me a DM with your questions. I’ll select from those to answer and share anonymously for the benefit of all.

This week’s reader asks:

Why wait to get the support you need? Your relationship doesn’t have a pause button.

Read my answer to this reader below and apply my advice to your own experiences.

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